Paul's 1st Passport Photo
Wednesday, December 27, 2006
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Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Aggression: Why it happens and what to do about it!
I am having a hard time with Mark's aggressive behaviour. Recently he hits or kicks others from time to time. he does that to Celeste, toPaul, to Laolao, to Daddy, to Me & to almost everyone.
he does that at school & at home.
I've talked to him in private so many times & put him on the " Thinking Chair" or in the "Thinking Corner" but he still goes back to the same track. The daddy keeps asking me to give him a serious warning by "beating him up". I disapproved of physical punishment to young kids & I never want to do that to my kids. Though I did beat his backside a few times ( pretentous).
as a first-time mother, I decided to seek help from the internet. I've found an article from BabyCenter.com http://parentcenter.babycenter.com/refcap/65527?_requestid=503945
Worthy reading ! A lot of useful information.
I am not the only mum having the headache & Mark is not only child having the same problem.
I am having a hard time with Mark's aggressive behaviour. Recently he hits or kicks others from time to time. he does that to Celeste, toPaul, to Laolao, to Daddy, to Me & to almost everyone.
he does that at school & at home.
I've talked to him in private so many times & put him on the " Thinking Chair" or in the "Thinking Corner" but he still goes back to the same track. The daddy keeps asking me to give him a serious warning by "beating him up". I disapproved of physical punishment to young kids & I never want to do that to my kids. Though I did beat his backside a few times ( pretentous).
as a first-time mother, I decided to seek help from the internet. I've found an article from BabyCenter.com http://parentcenter.babycenter.com/refcap/65527?_requestid=503945
Worthy reading ! A lot of useful information.
I am not the only mum having the headache & Mark is not only child having the same problem.
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Tuesday, December 05, 2006
剧情简介
这是属于帝企鹅的伟大时代。它们占领者着南极洲的最深处，在这个家族里，只有一个办法能够让新生的小家伙得到大家的认可——拥有一副动听的歌喉。不幸的是，马伯(伊利亚·伍德配音)是整个家族里唱歌唱得最差的那个。但是，他却是一个天生的舞蹈家，街舞跳到出神入化。马伯的妈妈诺玛·吉恩(妮可·基德曼配音)，把马伯舞蹈天赋仅仅看成一个可爱的小爱好，但马伯的爸爸孟菲斯(休·杰克曼配音)却认为，不会唱歌只会跳舞的马伯根本就不是企鹅。不过他们达成共识的是，没有一副好嗓子的巴伯，可能永远也找不到真爱了。 有趣的是，不会唱歌的马伯唯一的好朋友格洛丽亚(布兰特妮·墨菲配音)，正好是整个家族当中最好的歌手。虽然他们俩自出生后就一直在一起，对彼此都有特殊的感觉，但格洛丽亚总是被马伯与众不同的节奏舞步困扰着。马伯与其他帝企鹅实在是太不一样了--特别是对于家族中最严厉的领导者诺亚(罗宾·威廉姆斯配音)来说。虽然诺亚的独断专行导致他最后被家族所排斥，但他一贯不依不饶的态度迫使马伯产生了离开的念头。 第一次离开家的马伯，在路上碰到了一群企鹅朋友。他们不是帝企鹅，而是阿德兰企鹅，首领叫做罗曼。阿德兰们被马伯独特的舞步深深打动，邀请他去参加一个盛大的舞会。在阿德兰的地盘上，马伯用一块鹅卵石的代价，获得了一位头上长有奇怪羽毛，跳着摇滚舞步的流浪者的指引，他回答了马伯生命中的很多疑问……
Monday, December 04, 2006
Useful Tips from Jane Tan ( a mother of 1-boy)
Totally agree with the tips.
That's how to achieve a successful marriage.
(Though Michael never says " I love U" to me but he shows it )
Married And Loving It!
Marriage is not the end result of love; it is THE opportunity to love. It’s learning to love and love, all over, again and again. It is loving your spouse no-matter-what and not for-as-long-as.
Cherish the love you have for each other. Take time to enjoy what you both used to do together. Remember the first time you met & you whisper the sweet nothings and “I love you”? Recall the long walks at the beach, the cycling trips and the movies that brought the two of you together?
Make each day count, whether it’s preparing a bowl of instant noodles, a hug, a note, making his or her favourite drink or going home together after work. Let your partner know that he or she matters, to you. Little things done on a daily basis makes one feel loved and special.
Use technology to your advantage. The plasma television, your mobile phone, the computer, digital camera, whatever you may be having – use it to bring your spousal relationship closer; if it’s taking you away from each other, discard it. Don’t allow it to run or ruin your marriage.
Love her. Be nice; be kind; be patient. After all, no one is perfect, and if you found the perfect one, congratulations! The problem then is you, since the one you found is perfect.
Respect him. Yes, respect your man! Give him the honour that’s due, to him. Don’t put him down at home, in public and in front of the kids and the relatives. Each day tell him something that you admire about him, if you can. Wasn’t that what you had when you first met him in the early days?
Forgive and let go. Forgiveness is setting YOU free from all the agony, pains and hurt. Whatever is done cannot be undone, but life goes on. You have a choice and you can choose to forgive and let go.
Enjoy, have fun and laugh with each other. The two of you deserve it! Take time out, de-role from your role at work or at home; be the husband or wife that you had committed to be. Learn to play and laugh all over again.
“For many years, I was able to convince myself that she was not gaining weight. Whenever I embraced her, I just figured that my arms were getting shorter”. Married and loving every moment of it, of her, of us, of OUR marriage!
Totally agree with the tips.
That's how to achieve a successful marriage.
(Though Michael never says " I love U" to me but he shows it )
Married And Loving It!
Marriage is not the end result of love; it is THE opportunity to love. It’s learning to love and love, all over, again and again. It is loving your spouse no-matter-what and not for-as-long-as.
Cherish the love you have for each other. Take time to enjoy what you both used to do together. Remember the first time you met & you whisper the sweet nothings and “I love you”? Recall the long walks at the beach, the cycling trips and the movies that brought the two of you together?
Make each day count, whether it’s preparing a bowl of instant noodles, a hug, a note, making his or her favourite drink or going home together after work. Let your partner know that he or she matters, to you. Little things done on a daily basis makes one feel loved and special.
Use technology to your advantage. The plasma television, your mobile phone, the computer, digital camera, whatever you may be having – use it to bring your spousal relationship closer; if it’s taking you away from each other, discard it. Don’t allow it to run or ruin your marriage.
Love her. Be nice; be kind; be patient. After all, no one is perfect, and if you found the perfect one, congratulations! The problem then is you, since the one you found is perfect.
Respect him. Yes, respect your man! Give him the honour that’s due, to him. Don’t put him down at home, in public and in front of the kids and the relatives. Each day tell him something that you admire about him, if you can. Wasn’t that what you had when you first met him in the early days?
Forgive and let go. Forgiveness is setting YOU free from all the agony, pains and hurt. Whatever is done cannot be undone, but life goes on. You have a choice and you can choose to forgive and let go.
Enjoy, have fun and laugh with each other. The two of you deserve it! Take time out, de-role from your role at work or at home; be the husband or wife that you had committed to be. Learn to play and laugh all over again.
“For many years, I was able to convince myself that she was not gaining weight. Whenever I embraced her, I just figured that my arms were getting shorter”. Married and loving every moment of it, of her, of us, of OUR marriage!
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